You may be familiar with our Car Lite blog series profiling Rochesterarians who live with little dependence (but not NO dependence) on a car. But every so often we come across someone living entirely car free. Read about Lorie’s journey without a car for more than a decade below. We hope these stories inspire you to try out a car-lite lifestyle!
I’ve Lived in Rochester for 16 Years without a Car
By Lorie Reilly:
I was living in Boston, MA sixteen years ago when I sold my car and decided to adopt a car free lifestyle. When I moved to Rochester in 2022, I wanted to bring that lifestyle with me, but I didn’t know how that would pan out in a smaller city with limited transit options and much lower density.
While living in Boston, I had learned to tailor my life to the places I could get to without a car, to feel confident cycling on city streets, and to embrace being outside in all kinds of weather. I had the fitness level required to move about under my own steam, and I was fortunate enough to have a job that had transitioned to being fully remote during the pandemic. These were the skills and circumstances that I was counting on to help me transition from Boston to Rochester without a car.
1) Did my car free lifestyle survive the move from Boston to Rochester?
Yes, definitely!
Here are the key factors for making this a successful experience for me:
- Finding an apartment in a neighborhood that has commerical, financial, and medical resources all within walking and biking distance–this is THE primary ingredient, and it’s one of the reasons why mixed-use neighborhoods are so important.
- Learning about the bike boulevards and off-road trails that circumvent the busier roads
- Bicycle repair shops within walking/biking distance
- Learning how to change my own flats at a workshop offered by the Rochester Bicycling Club
- A transit system that takes me to places further afield
- Having another friend who is car free–he gives me tips about gear and routes and inspires me.
2) Have I wavered on being car free since moving to Rochester?
Not one bit. I’m as firmly committed as ever to life without a car. I honestly feel lucky to be able to walk and cycle everywhere. I’ve never liked sitting in a car and seeing the world from a small window while stuck, immobilized, in a position that hurts my back and cramps my legs. I enjoy taking my time to get somewhere while noticing babies in strollers, ants on the sidewalk, snow on branches, birds building nests, and more, so much more. When I look at the world from a car, I feel separated from the sensory experiences of where I am, as if I’m viewing it all through a TV screen (PS: I don’t have one of those, either).
3) Can I get to everything I need/want to get to?
NEED: Yes! When I moved here, I had a checklist of things I needed to be able to get to within my walking/cycling radius (food shopping, pharmacy, doctor’s office, bank, fitness center, library, farmers market, train station, etc.), and I was lucky enough to find a location that checked all the boxes.
WANT: When you live a car free life, you learn to think differently about where you want to go. I live within a smaller radius than a typical car owner, but I have discovered the pleasures of living deeply within my 10-20 mile radius, and this gives me a wonderful sense of being rooted in the community. Instead of waking up on a Saturday and planning a day trip to a location 120 miles away, I’m content to plan an afternoon at Cobbs Hill or the Rochester Contemporary Art Center. It’s kind of like the refrain of that song “love the one you’re with”–you find the joy where you are rather than chasing it over the next horizon. And Rochester has a LOT of local joy to offer.
4) Does it take longer to get places?
Yes, but when walking or biking, 90% of the joy is in the journey–moving my body, seeing and interacting with what’s around me, savoring the fresh air and the big skies overhead. Going on an errand becomes an adventure as well as a work-out, and I never need to worry about parking. Not using a personal vehicle puts a limit on the number of places I can go in one day and the number of things I can carry, but for someone trying to live in the slow lane and travel more lightly, these are good things.
5) Which of my car-free adventures in Rochester has raised the most eyebrows?
- Walking home six miles from the airport
- Dropping off electronic waste from the back of my bike at the drive-thru EcoPark
- Walking to the post office when it was 2 degrees outside
6) What are some of the most interesting things I’ve hauled on the back of my bike?
- A large new rug from a rug store
- A new guitar from Pittsford Plaza
- A pot of lentil soup for a potluck supper
- A small table found curbside
7) What about the winter?
When the roads are icy or snow-covered, I rely on walking to get where I need to go. I bundle up, strap some spikes onto the bottom of my boots, and then plunge out into whatever winter weather awaits. I love the feeling of getting my body warmed up through brisk activity in cold temperatures. It’s like having my own little portable furnace inside my coat. And then of course, coming home to a warm house feels heavenly. Rochester has a wide variety of ever-changing weather, and I use each flavor as an exercise in mindful awareness, of waking up to what it’s like to be alive: “Ahhh, this is the feeling of spring rain on my face.”
8) Biggest car-free travel adventures while living in Rochester?
- Taking the Greyhound bus to Buffalo to see an art exhibit at the AKG Art museum.
- Taking the train to Montreal to see my daughter–which involved staying overnight in a closet-sized AirBnB in Toronto to catch the connecting train the next morning.
9) Biggest car-free surprises in Rochester?
- The #23 bus to the airport for all of one dollar
- Discovering like-minded people via Reconnect Rochester
- Having folks call out a friendly greeting from their front porch even though I’m quite removed from them as I bike in the street or walk on the sidewalk. (That never happened in Boston!)
- A clerk thanking me for riding my bike to the store

10) Why do I do it? When I first sold my car, it was part of a list of changes I made to reduce my carbon footprint, but since then, I have discovered so many benefits to living without a car:

- Being out in the fresh air and getting lots of exercise
- Saving a TON of money
- Avoiding all the logistical hassles and stresses involved with owning and driving a car
- Enjoying the challenge of figuring out how to get places–it’s a fun puzzle for me
- Living a hyper-local life which has deepened my relationship to where I live
- Moving mindfully and intentionally as I go places
- Having a reduced number of choices to make–that small radius I mentioned above–which can be liberating
- Exchanging smiles, greetings, and conversations with people I encounter
- Stopping to enjoy the unexpected things I find as I walk or bike places.
People often think that I’m living a life of hardship and sacrifice–but I feel very fortunate to be living without a car. For me, living car free is an integral part of living my best life.
If any of this sounds like something you might want to try, start by simply replacing a small number of trips per week with an alternative mode of transportation. See how it goes, experiment, and discover what interesting adventures might await you!
At Reconnect, we’re inspired by the stories of people in our community, like Charles Rubin, Leverett Copeland, and Josie McClary, who are passionate about living a car lite or car free lifestyle. If you want to support our work and make it easier for others to go car lite please donate and sign up for Mobility Action Alerts to stay in the loop with opportunities of how to advocate for safer streets and transportation options.
Let us know if you want to share your mobility story! What’s in it for you? The intrinsic reward of knowing you’ve inspired others, and a free t-shirt from our online shop! Contact Chaz to submit your story.

















































































































